Philip Davis wrote in message
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> Andrew L. J. Heenan wrote in message
news:...
> > Philip Davis wrote ...
> >
> > > ... who asked me how I was feeling. Since I was detained and
> > > prevented from looking after my elderly mother as I usually do I used
> > > strong language to express my strong feeling and quietly replied that
> > > I was I feel fucking awful. ... response to this expression of
> > > my distress was to to tell me not to swear. Since the last time some
> > > felt they could tell me what to say was when I was a child in school I
> > > felt this was a deeply patronising and very uncaring response. It was
> > > also a very judgemental response and this sort of judgementally is
> > > clearly known to prevent good therapeutic relationships. (Any one who
> > > has done even a basic counselling course will know the importance of
> > > being non-judgemental.)
> >
> >
> > So its OK for you to act in an uncaring and inconsiderate way, utterly
> > failing to respect the feelings of others, and yet wrong for a health
care
> > professional to ask you to be more considerate.
> >
> > As nurse of many years experience, I am saddened by the expectation
that
> > professions are expected to absorb verbal (and presumably) physical
> > violence.
> >
> > Im sure youd have been most upset if his response had been Fuck off
you
> > rude git. In fact Ill bet youd have trashed him all over the Internet
(Oh
> > ... you have anyway!)
> >
> > Double standards never helped in the care of people with mental health
> > problems; never, and they never will. Accepting aggression as normal
does
> > no-one any favours.
> >
> > Some folk - obviously not you or I, find certain words - not just the
> > implied or present aggression - to be extremely offensive. You might
care to
> > learn from your experience. Or not.
> >
> > As it happens, the Zero Tolerance policy has much more to do with drunks
and
> > people forced to wait for hours in A&E.
> >
> > Is it OK for them to hit staff as the mood takes - or are you reserving
that
> > right for people living with mental illness?
> >
> > I believe you seriously underestimate the professionalism of staff who
face
> > aggression daily; it is rarely - if ever *their fault*, although I
accept it
> > is not always the *fault* of the perpetrator.
> >
> > None the less, anything other than zero tolerance is a betrayal of staff
> > (who have *rights* too - including the right to work in safety).
Fostering
> > an atmosphere where violence is tolerated - and so expected - will
> > ultimately harm the very people you claim to be supporting.
> >
> > Andrew Heenan RMN RGN
>
> Mr Heenan believes that me using my normal strong language, in a quiet
> tone, to describe my feelings, and in response to a question put to
> me is an act of aggression.
no one has suggested , what has been suggested is that profanity, is
unacceptable in helathcare settings, and while it may demomnstrate the
frustration of the user it is neither beneficial or porductive, Agression
and violence usually only results from the inapprorpaite response to
requests that the person using profanity refrain from doing so.
Often this descends to the person using profanity, making direct insults ,
threatening or using violence, all of which are in approrpaite and threats
or use of violence are criminal matters
>My response to this is that Mr Heenan is
> attempting to force his own narrow middleclass mores on people. I
> personally believe that attempting to force people to change their
> normal behaviour to suit a limited set of bourgoise mores is an actual
> aggressive act.
No it is based in respect and in providing an approrpaite therpeutic
environment for other services users and a less threatening environment for
front line staff, a consistant and firm attiude must be taken across all
facets of the NHS service otherwise it leaves us open to deliberate
manipulation by those who wish the NHS to belive that their unacceptable
behaviour is a facet of real or imagined mental illness, often with the
aim of attempting to seek medication or admission.
> Its of the same quality and character of the mind set
> in the Soviet Union in the 1970s where not believing in the benefit
> of communism was considered a deviation from acceptable norms and
> resulted in people being detained in psychiatric hospitals.
this of course is utter rubbish, it is currently the hardest its ever been
to get even obviously mentally disordered people into in patient
psychiatric services i nthe UK
> If Mr Heenan does not want to work in an environment where people use
> strong language on occassion I suggest he apply for a job as a
> lighthouse keeper or shepherd.
this is not a solution to dealing with violent or aggressive behaviour and
smacks of the old, discredited attitude that violence nad agression are
part of the job for front line health workers
>
> Fostering an envirnoment where the NHS Zero Tolerance Zone Campaign is
> abused by people like Mr Heenan will bring discredit to this important
> campaign and will result in becoming worthless.
sadly you are out of step , it is obvious that you do not consider that
your unacceptable behaviour is unacceptable, what aobut your tolerance
respect and understanding for the professionals you interact with ?
>Tolerance and
> understanding is the key to the deesculation of violence and Mr Heenan
> would do well to look at the details of the campaign. The campaign
> repeatedly mentions the benfits of allowing people to express their
> feelings. If he can find anywhere in the campaign where he is told it
> is a good idea to restrict the language people use to express their
> feelings I will be very suprised.
peopel are encouraged to express their concenrs , however this does not and
should not involved profanity, threats or violent behaviour, if people are
unwilling to work in a collaborative and sensible manner then they bring
it upon themselves to have sanctions taken, should Staff feel that the
behaviour is inappropriate or shoudl hey feel that an offence may be
commited then approrpaite action needs to be taken.
> My sympathies are with the collegues of Mr Heenan who will undoubtable
> have to deal with the fall out that his negative attitudes to service
> users will produce.
Oddly the levels of violence and aggressive behaviour are seen to fall in
those front line environments where zero tolerance policies are in
operation, especially once it becomes common knowledge that those who are
threatening or violent will be dealt with within the criminal justice
setting, for far too long we have made too many accommodations for
patients on the basis solely of them being patients, as health service
staff we are not judge and jury and should not make those decisions.
in the emergency care setting once it becomes common knowledge that those
who are not patients and behave in inappropriate manners will be removed
or even arrested from breach of the peace, it tends to make for a much more
settled environment, or do you consider it appropriate for staff to be
harangued and abused by the relatives of patients ?
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